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April is National Poetry Month
This article offes a variety of web sites to visit to learn more about poetry and National Poetry Month. Great for families, or for the writer seeking a little inspiration. Do you remember the joy of turning the brightly colored pages while Dr. Suess’ ...
Being an Adult
I have always thought that grandparents were the icons of wisdom, the “go to” person with he answers, the epitome of patience.When I was young, I often thought, “When I grow up, I want to be like Grandpa”. I looked forward with anxious anticipation to the ...
Literature and Women
Much has been written about women and women's issues throughout the ages; by women themselves and about women by men - women's mastery and mystery, their beauty and perceived lack of it and the overblown significance thereof, the ties that bind them ...
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A couple of weeks later, Ray tried to hit Julie up for more money; this time to furnish his new home. When she told him that she wouldn’t be able to help him out this time, he accused her of being cold and hung up the phone on her. Julie suddenly realized that she was being taken advantage of. Her hurt quickly turned to rage. She wanted to know how someone could be so self-serving and inconsiderate. If Julie had been weak enough to lend Ray another several hundred dollars for furniture, how could he sleep at night knowing that she had expenses of her own to look after?
We as women have an innate desire to nurture whenever possible. Many of us have learned the hard way we must always keep our guard up – spot when we may be being misled or taken advantage of. It is a common belief that a woman who is eager to lend money to a man, suffers from niavity, desperation, or
poor self-esteem. But in this case it was a loan not a gift, and a friendship not a romantic relationship.
We all know how risky it is to lend money to a friend of either sex. Some of us decide to give the lendee the benefit of the doubt because we think we know and trust them. Some of us are vigilant enough to take precautions to make the loan legally binding. The bottom line is that we need to stop stereo-typing and pointing fingers at a woman who would lend a man money. We need to take a closer look at the character of anyone who would try to take advantage of a friend’s genourostity.
Along with her respect for him, Julie also lost all compassion for Ray and their so-called friendship deteriorated.? The fact of the matter is that no one can respect a man who fails to respect others. When he performs actions that are self-serving and manipulative, his sincerity, his honour, his integrity, are all called into question.
They say:
It's not what we eat but what we digest that makes us strong;
not what we gain but what we save that makes us rich;
not what we read but what we remember that makes us learned;
and not what we profess but what we practice that gives us integrity.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Denni Gill is an up and coming Toronto Poet. Check out www.dennigill.com for her personal collection of articles, parables, and poetry.
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Poet enjoyed 'national presence'London Free PressBy JOE BELANGER, The London Free Press Reaney was the wife of the late James Reaney, one of Canada's best-known poets and playwrights who received three Governor General Awards before his death in 2008. Thibaudeau Reaney was the mother of James Reaney, ...and more » |
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